Male energy is funny and fickle. I speak to hundreds of people each week..on their turf too. To say men prefer to wallow in their male ego is putting it rather nicely. Shit they love it!...had one today say " hang on a sec "...and did a swan dive in it before grunting out his responses to my questions...as he was still drying himself off...
I am constantly amused by this phenomenon..It varies from door to door but the dynamic is still there..I approach the door and knock...Man opens door and acts as if he is being interrupted from his meeting with The Grand Poobah.. ( Hey you just came in to my Man Cave )..I have exactly 45 seconds to do my thing knowing ( for the most part ) it is totally useless...he grunts and either gives a lame, overused excuse ( it amazes me that people keep using the same excuses! Hello! I have heard that one like a thousand times..jeesh come up with something new..) or pulls the dreaded " Wife Card "...known as the " Get out of jail free card "...
Of course he does this with such firmness...as if I should know that is the dynamic in this particular cave...and just like that it's all over.
It is such a pleasure to come across a Real Man. Comfortable in his manhood...actually makes decisions based on intel and heart...feels no threat and enjoys the opportunity to gather as well as hunt. An overall excellent man to man experience.
Women are totally different..Totally. Completely. In every possible way. Women open up their hearts and accept you for you for the most part. Here is the dynamic..women listen..actually listen to what you are saying..and they look you in the eye. Then they compute the value and decide...period. Oh there are questions...alot sometimes...and you better have the answers too...if not you will lose their trust.
Women also commit to new things. Men do not. I think it is simple really...men use their Ego and women use their hearts. Thank God for women...
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